AITA for Not Letting My Friend Bring Her Dog to My House?

Pets are like family for many people, but should pet owners expect special treatment everywhere? I faced backlash after refusing to let my friend bring her dog to my house. Was she right to set boundaries, or was she being unfair?

She Assumed Her Dog Was Welcome-But I Said No

My friend Jessica recently got a dog, and she’s completely obsessed. She takes him everywhere, including restaurants, stores, and even other people’s houses without asking.

Last week, she invited herself over for a movie night and casually mentioned she’d be bringing her dog. I told her I wasn’t comfortable with that—my house isn’t pet-friendly, and I don’t want to deal with dog hair or accidents.

Jessica was offended and said, “He’s well-behaved, and I take him everywhere. Why is your house any different?” When I stood my ground, she got upset, canceled our plans, and hasn’t spoken to me since. Now, mutual friends are saying I overreacted. Am I the asshole?

The Community Reacts: Was I Justified?

Many people agreed that not allowing a friend to bring their dog was reasonable.

“Your house, your rules. She should have asked instead of assuming.”

“Not everyone wants a dog in their home. That’s completely valid.”

“She’s being entitled. A pet isn’t a person—she should respect your space.”

However, some thought I could have been more flexible.

“If the dog is well-behaved, why not make an exception?”

“She clearly sees her dog as family. Maybe you could compromise?”

“Would letting the dog stay in a specific area of your house be an option?”

The Verdict: Personal Boundaries or Pet Parent Drama?

While some believed I should have been more accommodating, most agreed that not allowing a friend to bring their dog was a fair boundary.

At the end of the day, not everyone wants pets in their home, and that’s okay. Would you have made the same choice? Let us know in the comments!