AITAH for Leaving My Best Friend’s Bachelorette Party After They “Pranked” Me?

I never thought I’d be the one to walk out of my best friend’s bachelorette party. We’ve been inseparable since college, and I was honored to be her maid of honor. But what started as a fun weekend turned into a humiliating nightmare—all because of a so-called “prank.” Now, I’m left wondering: was I wrong to leave?

The Weekend Started Great

Everything was perfect at first. We rented a gorgeous Airbnb, decorated with balloons and banners, and even had matching T-shirts. The bride, Sarah, was glowing, and I was thrilled to celebrate her. The first night was full of laughter, drinks, and nostalgic stories. I felt like we were back in our college days—carefree and happy.

But on the second night, things took a turn. Sarah’s sister, Jess, suggested we play a “fun game.” I should’ve known something was off when everyone exchanged glances, but I trusted them. Big mistake.

The Prank Crossed Lines

The “game” was simple: each person had to share an embarrassing secret, and if someone refused, they’d face a “punishment.” When it was my turn, I hesitated—I’m a private person. Before I could say anything, Jess dumped a drink on me. Ice-cold vodka soaked my clothes. Everyone burst out laughing, including Sarah.

I tried to laugh it off, but then Jess pulled out a phone and showed a video they’d secretly recorded—me changing earlier, completely unaware. My face burned with humiliation. Sarah giggled and said, “Relax, it’s just a prank! We’ll delete it.” But the damage was done.

I Walked Out

I couldn’t believe it. These were the people I trusted most. I stood up, grabbed my bag, and said, “I’m done.” Sarah’s smile dropped. “Come on, don’t be dramatic,” she said. But I wasn’t being dramatic—I was hurt. I left without another word and drove home.

My phone blew up with texts: “You’re overreacting,” “It was just a joke,” “Don’t ruin Sarah’s weekend.” But no one apologized. No one seemed to care how violated I felt.

The Aftermath Was Worse

The next morning, Sarah called, furious. “You embarrassed me in front of everyone!” she yelled. I tried explaining how betrayed I felt, but she cut me off: “You’re supposed to be my best friend. Get over it.”

Now, the wedding’s in two weeks, and I don’t know if I can go. Some friends are on my side, but others say I should’ve just “taken the joke.” Even my mom thinks I overreacted. Am I really the asshole here?

Was It Really Just a Joke?

Let’s be clear: a prank is only funny if everyone laughs. Recording someone without consent? That’s invasive. Dumping a drink on them? That’s bullying. If the roles were reversed, Sarah would’ve lost it.

I keep replaying it in my head. Maybe if they’d apologized, I could’ve moved on. But they doubled down. That says everything.

Should I Still Go to the Wedding?

Part of me wants to suck it up for Sarah’s sake. But another part wonders: if she’s okay with humiliating me now, what’s next? A cruel toast? More “jokes” at my expense?

I don’t want to ruin her big day, but I also refuse to be a punching bag. If I go, I need a real apology first. Otherwise, I’m not sure our friendship can survive this.

What Would You Do?

I’m torn. Was leaving an overreaction? Should I apologize to keep the peace? Or was I right to stand up for myself? I need honest opinions—tell me in the comments: AITAH?

If you’ve been in a similar situation, how did you handle it? Let’s discuss below. And if you think Sarah and her friends went too far, share this post. Maybe they’ll see it and finally get it.