19 Hairstyles for Tweens That Feel Age-Appropriate
Navigating the tween years can feel like walking a tightrope, especially when it comes to style. Your child is craving independence and a look that feels uniquely them, while you’re hoping for something that’s manageable, school-appropriate, and doesn’t make them look like they’re 25. Finding that sweet spot for hairstyles can be a particular challenge. Gone are the days of simple ponytails (unless they’re super cool), but full-on salon blowouts might be a bit much.
This list is here to bridge that gap. We’ve gathered 19 hairstyles that strike the perfect balance—trendy enough to earn social points at the lunch table, easy enough for busy mornings, and age-appropriate for those wonderful, in-between years. Let’s dive into looks that celebrate their growing individuality while keeping things fun and fresh.
1. The Textured High Ponytail
Move over, basic pony. The textured high ponytail is a major upgrade. This style is all about volume and attitude. Tease the crown slightly before gathering the hair high at the back of the head. Use a bristle brush to smooth the top and sides, but leave some deliberate texture and face-framing pieces loose. It’s sporty, it’s chic, and it works for straight, wavy, or curly hair.
2. Braided Crown or Headband Braid
Perfect for keeping hair out of the face during sports or school, this style feels whimsical and pretty. Simply create a Dutch or French braid along the hairline from one temple to the other, securing it behind the ear. The rest of the hair can be worn down or in a ponytail. It’s a subtle way to incorporate braids without a complicated, time-consuming style.
3. Space Buns
A nostalgic 90s trend that tweens absolutely adore. Space buns are playful, fun, and perfect for spirit days or weekends. Part the hair down the middle, create two high ponytails, and twist each into a bun. The key is to keep them a little messy and relaxed, not too tight or perfect. They can be large or small, and are a great way to handle second-day hair.
4. The Classic (But Better) Low Ponytail
Elevate the simplest of styles. Take a low ponytail and add a cool scrunchie or a cute ribbon tie. For extra points, take a small section of hair from underneath the ponytail and wrap it around the hair tie to hide it, securing it with a bobby pin. This tiny detail makes it look intentional and polished.
5. Half-Up, Half-Down with a Twist
The half-up style is a tween staple, but let’s make it special. Instead of just grabbing the top section, try twisting two small front sections back and securing them together at the crown. Or, use a small claw clip for a trendy hold. This keeps hair off the face while showing off length and texture.
6. Bubble Ponytails or Pigtails
This is a seriously fun and easy style. Create a high or low ponytail (or two pigtails). Then, use small, clear elastics spaced evenly down the length of the tail. Gently tug on each section between the elastics to puff them out and create the “bubble” effect. It’s playful, eye-catching, and easier than it looks.
7. Messy Bun with a Scrunchie
The ultimate easy, go-to style. The trick for the tween version is to use a fabric scrunchie for a softer, less severe look. Pull the hair into a loose, high bun, allowing ends and pieces to fall out naturally. It should look like it took 30 seconds (because it did) but still totally pulled together.
8. French or Dutch Braid (Side or Center)
A classic for a reason. A neat braid is perfect for gym class, dance practice, or a hot day. A side braid feels casual, while a centered Dutch braid (where the braid pops out) feels more athletic and trendy. It’s a protective style that keeps hair secure and tidy for hours.
9. Twisted Low Bun
Ideal for more formal events like concerts or family photos. Gather hair at the nape of the neck, twist it into a rope, and then coil it into a bun. Secure with pins and a cute hair accessory. It’s elegant without being too grown-up, and it teaches a simple updo technique.
10. Accessorized Waves
Sometimes, the best style is to let natural texture shine—with a little help. Use a braid or twist overnight to create soft waves. In the morning, add a few well-placed accessories: mini butterfly clips along one side, a beaded barrette, or a patterned bandana tied as a headband. It’s effortless and totally on-trend.
11. The Slicked-Back Pony with Gel
Inspired by ballet and athletic trends, this look is all about sleek, clean lines. Use a bit of gel or strong-hold mousse on damp hair to slick it back into a tight, high or low ponytail or bun. It’s a bold, confident look perfect for when they want to feel put-together and fierce.
12. Two Simple Braids
Channel a cozy, classic vibe with two simple braids—either over the shoulders or down the back. It’s a low-maintenance, protective style that works for all hair types and lengths. For a twist, try braiding only halfway down and leaving the ends loose.
13. The Puff with a Bandana
For tweens with natural hair, a beautiful, rounded puff is a stunning and age-appropriate style. Gather the hair high on the head with a wide band or scarf. Tie a colorful bandana around the base for a pop of personality. It celebrates natural texture beautifully.
14. Fishtail Braid
Once they’ve mastered the basic braid, the fishtail is a fantastic next step. It looks intricate but is surprisingly simple with a little practice. It’s a beautiful style for medium to long hair and feels special for a day out or a sleepover.
15. Half-Up Top Knot
Take the top section of hair and gather it into a small, messy bun or knot right on the crown. This style is quirky, cute, and keeps hair out of the eyes. It’s a great way to add some volume and interest to straight hair.
16. Braided Ponytail
Add interest to any ponytail by braiding the tail itself. A simple three-strand braid, a fishtail, or even two braids twisted together can make a plain ponytail look like a deliberate hairstyle. Secure the end with a cute hair tie.
17. Twist-Out or Braid-Out Curls
For curly-haired tweens, embracing their natural pattern is key. After washing, create several large twists or braids. Once dry, unravel them to reveal defined, bouncy, and beautiful curls. This is a protective styling method that results in a gorgeous, wearable look.
18. The Bow Bun
A delightful and whimsical style. Create a high ponytail but don’t pull the hair all the way through on the last loop of the hair tie, leaving the ends out to form one loop of the bow. Split the loop in half and pin each half to the sides. Use the loose ends as the “tails” of the bow or tuck them under. It’s adorable for special occasions.
19. The Accessorized Low Bun
Transform a simple low bun with statement accessories. Think: a donut-shaped bun form for a perfect shape, a wrap-around pearl chain, or a beautiful silk scarf woven through the bun. It teaches how accessories can elevate a basic style.
Finding the Right Style for Your Tween
The most important part of choosing a tween hairstyle is collaboration. Look through pictures together, consider their daily activities (is it for soccer practice or a birthday party?), and be realistic about your morning time budget. Practice new braids or styles on the weekend when there’s no pressure. The goal is to build their confidence and skill in self-care, all while having fun expressing themselves.
Remember, hair is a wonderful, temporary way to experiment with identity. These 19 hairstyles offer a fantastic starting point that respects their desire to be trendy while honoring the wonderful, unique age they’re at. So grab some hair ties, a few cute clips, and enjoy this creative part of the tween journey together!
